Here on Glam!, we choose to handle all issues privately rather than in public. Simply because an issue is no longer being publicly discussed does not mean nothing is being done about it. Getting into an argument in public, whether between members or with an Admin, is not the way to solve an argument. We'd prefer to avoid breeding drama, creating martyrs, and spare everyone embarrassment.
Occasionally, we handle things wrong. But we are only human and mistakes happen. Miscommunication tends to happen over the internet. We do our best to ensure that this doesn’t happen, but it does more often than we’d like.
That aside, an we’d like to explain some things:
1. There are no
"invisible rules". Simply because an Admin messages you does not mean you are in trouble or have broken a rule. Unless the PM expressly says "This is a warning"
you are not in trouble. Glam! by default has limited rules and unless something becomes a major issue, new rules will not be implemented. If we gave everyone a warning each time they were PM'd half of the new members of Glam! would be gone within their first month. These messages are often set a reminder, or to avoid actually breaking a rule, and try to keep a friendly balance on Glam!
2. Admins make mistakes. We are not above the 'Glam! Law'. We are human and we don't always act in Adminly manners. First and foremost, we are members. The rules that apply to you apply to us. However, just as we will not act lenient for the Admin, we will also not act harsher on the Admin. No member shall be belittled for the sake of another. We apologize if this has happened in the past, but without knowing of our mistakes we cannot fix them.
That said you are always free to PM an Admin about any issue. Whether it is another member, a Mod, or an Admin, you are always welcome to talk to us no matter what. We try to be as open minded as we can be, and if you think something is wrong, please let us know. We love hearing from you guys